February 2012
24 posts
Intensity
dearoldlove:
I used to think your intensity was attractive, now I see it is just an extension of your narcissism.
We may not like it, but it really is important to stop every once and awhile,...
– Grey’s Anatomy (via anditslove)
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Why We Hide Emotional Pain (Leon F. Seltzer,... →
psychotherapy:
Excerpt (via Psychology Today):
“Not to show vulnerability is typically viewed as a strength, a “demonstration” of character. But in reality the major motives in hiding our emotions are (as I’ve already indicated) fear-based. We’re just afraid to look weak or susceptible to others. Paradoxically, though, unashamedly disclosing our vulnerability can actually be a deliberate...
The Only Thing
dearoldlove:
I think the only thing that would make me feel better about you never giving me the chance I deserved and breaking my heart is if you turned out to be gay.
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Shouldn't you too?
You not you does not matter.
You don’t matter as much as you used to.
But sometimes i wonder if I should
let my pride slide.
Shouldn’t you too?
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January 2012
35 posts
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You think it's only you.
But then you realize that it’s other people too. Then you begin to wonder if it really means anything. Does it mean anything?
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Imprisoned by the past: Unhappy moods lead to a... →
psychotherapy:
Evidence suggests that mind wandering is a frequent accompaniment to an unhappy mood. Building on such work, two laboratory experiments used mood induction to assess whether the greater frequency of mind wandering in a low mood is also accompanied by a shift towards a focus on events from the past. Experiment 1 induced moods via video and induction of an unhappy mood was associated...
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2011: Lists because I don't have time to be wordy. →
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I have to admit
that you caught me off guard.